Ever have a moment as a parent where you have to step back and just let it happen? I encountered that recently when my daughter came home in tears one day after school...upset that she got stuck with most of the work for a group project. The educator in me began asking all the right questions..."Who's in your group?" "What's the assignment?" "How did you get stuck putting it all together?" After a quick investigation, I learned that her 3 fellow group members were all boys. They had done some of the work at school, but when it came time to put it all together, I guess they decided that should be "all her." In their words..."You put it together for us and we'll present it." It was 3 against 1, and since she's the compliant "teacher pleaser" she brought the work home to put the poster together herself. It broke my heart to see her upset, but I quickly noticed her demeanor change as she began laying it all out for the task ahead. I asked if I could help in any way and she simply said, "No! I got this!"
Three hours later, she reappeared with a huge smile on her face holding a BRIGHT HOT PINK poster with the most beautifully (and girly) decorated poster you have ever seen. It had ribbons, flowery sequins, bows, lace...you name it!! She even sprayed it with perfume before going out the door the next morning!! Yep, my daughter decided if the BOYS were going to stick hours of work on her and they got the job of a 2 minute presentation, she was going to make it as painful as possible for them. The teacher in me was thinking, "Oh no, the decorating was a bit much!" But the mother in me was saying, "YOU GO GIRL!" Her teacher, who was obviously aware of what had transpired, simply walked by her in class, leaned down and whispered, "I LOVE IT!"
I recently conducted a formative assessment professional development with a wonderful colleague of mine. We had the best time sharing some strategies for quick checks in the classroom. A lot of the ideas came from my "Let's Recap" packet (also free in my TpT store), but we threw in a few different ones I thought I'd also make available for grabs. Hope you can put to good use in your classroom!
Bananas for my daughter who can "hold her own" when necessary!